You might have come across some older adults who are reluctant to ask for help or accept it when offered. Why? Here are the reasons:-
Denial. The person feels difficult in accepting the reality of his / her aging and the prospect of inceased dependence on others.
Pride. The person might not want to appear weak or incompetent in front of others.
Discomfort. The person does not like the idea of strangers coming into his or her home or the role reversal involved in accepting help from younger generations, particularly children.
Guilt. The person does not want to worry or disturb the family.
Anxiety. The person fears he or she will be pressured into leaving the comfort of his or her home, end up in a care facility and generally lose control over his or her life.
Resentment. The person perceives concerned family members as critical or intrusive.
Personality. The person has always found change difficult or been fiercely independent, stubborn or private.
Finances. The person is concerned about the cost of recommended equipment and services due to limited means.
Cognition. The person may be in the early stages of brain disorder by emotional disturbance and lack insight into her or his needs and capabilities.