It is believed that pornography is a harmless practice that hurts no one. Sex between a married couple is one of the most
effective ways to increase intimacy, build unity and generate love and happiness and is therefore a vital component of a healthy
relationship.
Watching pronography leads to development of emotional and physical distance between the spouses. Here are some valuable suggestions to overcome this problem:-
Watching pronography leads to development of emotional and physical distance between the spouses. Here are some valuable suggestions to overcome this problem:-
- First try to know watching pronos by your spouse is an addiction or a habit. If your spouse is a committed and loving partner who is concerned with your happiness, he or she is probably trapped in a pattern of behavior that seems impossible to break.
- If your spouse is addicted to watching pronos, tell your spouse that you believe that he or she is addicted to pornography and discuss ways to overcome the addiction together. Reassure your spouse of your love and commit to provide help and support. Agree that all sexual experiences should be done together and used only to strengthen your marriage.
- Think about the sources available to your spouse to watch the pronos. If you feel internet is the only source, block access with passwords which you only know. Permanently place the computer in a place in the house where people / family members are present. If need arises, you can cancel net connection. Also subscribe only for those TV channels which do not contain adult / pronoraphic programmes. You and your spouse both can spend a lot of time together by decreasing time being spent before TV & web.
- To make your married-life stronger, be supportive and loving despite your partner’s moodiness. He or she may experience depression, increased anxiety or even anger. This will pass in time.